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LLMs Are Girlfriends, Not Wives
Large Language Models like ChatGPT, Gemini, Claude, and Grok mirror us—they’re charming, agreeable, and validating, like “girlfriends.” But real growth needs friction. To use AI wisely, seek contrast and challenge, not comfort. Validation feels good—but only challenge makes us grow.

Frieda van der Merwe
Nov 112 min read


Pecking Order Poison: The Superchicken Trap For Teams
Margaret Heffernan’s TED Talk begins with the story of “superchickens” — a failed experiment in breeding only top performers. The result? Destruction. The lesson: success isn’t about individual brilliance but collaboration, trust, and diversity. True performance thrives in connection — not competition. We don’t need superchickens; we need strong, united flocks.

Frieda van der Merwe
Nov 112 min read


It’s More Than a Feeling: What your nervous system is really asking for — and why you need your daily dose
Your nervous system needs nourishment too—through movement, learning, sensory input, and rest. This post explores how to recognise and honour your personal “daily dose” to support clarity, balance, and wellbeing.

Frieda van der Merwe
Jul 172 min read


HR and the Mechanics of Real Creativity
Creativity in HR isn’t about art — it’s about shaping lives. HR pros design systems that impact wellbeing, family, and hope. Real creativity starts with impulsivity. The first instalment in a series about Real Drivers of Innovation.

Frieda van der Merwe
Jul 172 min read
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